upbringing-20
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悬赏1000分求翻译一篇文
stable upbringing。
稳定的成长
双语对照
例句:
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You want to maximise your progeny's chances of survival by providing a good, stableupbringing. 。
你想尽可能让你的后代生活下去，提供优越和稳定的成长环境。
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抱起亚轩找小葵
哪位英语高手帮我把这篇中文翻译成英语的？
哇，楼主太厉害了，竟然如此方法支持小法，恩学会了，虽然我不懂足球，不过我有认真去网上查了一下小法，恩，长得还行，不要pia 我……
以下我手写翻译，仅供参考
（注：？标记翻译的都不太准确）
01 他球踢的好
He plays football quite well.。
02 他长的又帅
He is handsome.。
03 他的眼睛很深邃很黑很清澈，仿佛能把人吸进去。
？With deep dark and clear eyes, it is likely to absorb you in.。
04 他的气质很高贵
There is something noble about him. 。
05 他皮肤很好
His skin is smooth.。
06 没胡子的时候很“正太”
He is quite shota without beard.。
07 有胡子的时候很“大叔”
He is quite man with beard.。
08 他总是不经意的抿嘴或舔嘴唇。
He always smiles and licks his lips unconsciously.。
09 他穿正装很帅
He is handsome in uniform.。
10 他穿休闲服也很帅
He is also handsome when wears casual clothes.。
11 他有治愈系的笑容
His smile can comfort your heart.。
12 他很有品味
He looks tasteful.。
13 他很可爱
He is lovely.
14 他偶尔会很呆
Sometimes he seems to be in a trance. 。
15 他经常干很囧的事情（不然为毛我们都叫他法囧）
？He usually done something astonished. ()。
16 他也会有坏坏的发脾气的时候，但绝对是个爷们。
Sometimes he has a bad temper, but behaves totally as a man.。
17 他开心的时候很抽风
He is crazy when happy.。
18 他有时候很腹黑
？Sometimes he doesn’t do as it appears.。
19 他的英语带着怪怪的加泰罗尼亚腔（我雅思听力8居然听得一知半解==）
？His English accent sounds strange with a little Catalonian accent mixed.。
20 但是说的非常流利（对此表示羡慕ing）
But he speaks so fluently. (I’m so envy for this.)。
21 他是一个天才
He is a genius.。
22 但他没有浪费自己的天才，反而更加上进。
But he doesn’t waste his genius ability, instead he works hard.。
23 他身为富二代，却很低调
As an affluent 2nd generation, he always tries to keep a low profile.。
24 他很坚强
He has a strong heart.。
25 他很聪明
He is quite smart.。
26 他很善良
He is kindhearted.。
27 他很执着
He has a strong mind.。
28 他很自信
He is quite confidence.。
29 他很谦逊
He is very humble.。
30 他很率性
? He does things without more thinking.。
31 他很努力
He works hard.
32 思想很成熟
He has a mature mind.。
33 感情很专一
He is a man with the single-minded emotion.。
34 他跟好友私底下闹起来是个孩子。
In privately, he plays with his friends just like a kid.。
35 他跟队友在赛场是个坚强的男人。
In the competition with teammates, he is a strong man。
36 他作为一个年轻球员，他潜力无限。
As a young football player, his potentiality is limitless.。
37 他总是认真对待每一场比赛，每一个机会。
He always treats every competition and every chance seriously.。
38 他一直在进步
He makes progress all the time.。
39 他曾经单薄的肩膀竟撑起那么大的重量。
He ever supported so much weigh with his thinner shoulder.。
40 他以实力证明了自己
He proves himself by strength.。
41 他以实力证实了教授的眼光。
His strength says the professor is right.。
42 他是史上最年轻的阿森纳队长。
He is the youngest captain of the Arsenal。
43 他支撑着阿森纳
He supports the Arsenal.。
44 他明明脚受伤却用尽全力罚进点球，之后一瘸一拐撑完比赛。（我就是这场比赛彻底喜欢上小法的，作为一个巴萨球迷，这是唯一一场我不希望巴萨赢的比赛）
？he tried his best to score the penalty kick even though there was an apparent hurt in his feet. Then he walked with a limp till the end. (It was after this competition that I completely love him. And as a fun of Fabregas, it was the only match I didn’t want him to win. )。
45 他不计较功名利益
Fame and money means nothing to him.。
46 他懂得顾全大局
? He knows that it is important to take the interests of the whole into account.。
47 他从不会因无法首发而不满或者遗憾。
? He never complains or regrets when unable to be the first to kick off.。
48 但是只要上场他一定有惊艳的表现。
But as long as he enters the field, there must be an astonished performance.。
49 西班牙第一个世界杯冠军的决赛唯一的制胜球是来自他的助攻。
In The first time Spanish won the World Cup, the only winning goal comes from his assists.。
50 06年世界杯西班牙淘汰时他哭的眼睛红肿。
He cried with all eyes red and swollen when Spanish was eliminated in the 2006 World Cup.。
51 10年世界杯西班牙夺冠时他笑的见牙不见眼。
? He laughed so happily that you can’t even see his eyes when Spanish won the World Cup in 2010.。
52 他在球场上让很多不可能变为可能。
In the competition he made so many impossibly things into possible things.。
53 他在足坛上写下了不可磨灭的历史。
He creates an indelible history in the football world.。
54 他可以给出完美的传球助攻。
He can give the perfect assistant pass.。
55 他可以给出漂亮的绝杀破门。
He can give the perfect last-gasp goal.。
56 他既有力量和血性
? He has strength, courage and uprightness.。
57 他也有细腻和灵巧
He is also sensitive and flexible.。
58 他很低调朴实
? He is low keyed and ordinary.。
59 却也璀璨华丽
However he is also gorgeous. 。
60 他像太阳一样可以温暖周围的人。
He appears to be the sun that can warm the surroundings.。
61 也像月亮一样可以点亮漆黑的夜。
He also appears to be the moon that can light up the dark nights.。
62 他的第一个家乡巴塞罗那的阳光像他绽放的笑容一样时刻保持灿烂。
He always keeps the big smiles in his face just like the sunshine in his first hometown, Barcelona。
63 他的第二个家乡伦敦的雨像他挥洒的汗水一样能感染心里每个角落。
In common with the rain in his second hometown, London, his perspirations always move every corner of the heart.。
64 他爱西班牙，那里抚育了他，是他发光的起点。
He loves Spanish，who brings him up, which is the beginning of his success. 。
65 他爱英国伦敦， 那里让他成长，让他更加璀璨夺目。
He loves London. It is there that he grows up. It is there that he becomes more brilliant.。
66 他爱巴塞罗那，那里有他爱的亲朋好友们。
He loves Barcelona，where he has a lot of fiends and relatives that all he loved.。
67 他爱阿森纳，那里有他爱的队友们和教授。
He loves Arsenal，where he has teammates and professors that all he loved.。
68 他总喜欢跟皮少佩西等人黏在一起JQ不断。
He likes to stay with the childes such as Peter and Patsy continuously making a lot of joy.。
69 他的帅气不只是外表
He is handsome not only in appearance.。
70 那是像天使一般纯净的帅气。
That is a pure quality just like an angle.。
71 球场上的他带着球飞驰就像一阵风，掠过绿茵，掠过对手，掠过每个人的眼睛，牵动每个人的心。
? In the field his playing flies like the wind over the grassland, over the rival, over every eye, which affects everyone’s mind.。
72 但他不是风一样的人，不会只是一闪而过不留痕迹，因为他心中有责任有目标，还有对足球和球迷的爱。
But he is not a wind of a man, only to be flashing a second without any marks. Because he has the responsibilities and the goals in his mind as well as the love to the football and his funs.。
73 他自我的活在当下
? He lives freely in present.。
74 他认真的计划未来
He makes plans about his future seriously.。
75 他没有不良记录，总让人很安心很放心。
He has none spotless record. He always makes people ease.。
76 那么多那么多的人喜欢他爱他支持他。
There are so many so many people love him and support him.。
77 他的法蜜们都很有爱很团结。
? His French funs are all loving him and to be a united one。
78 他有属于自己的骄傲
He has his own pride.。
79 他也是我们的骄傲
He is also our pride.。
最后，喜欢他最重要的一个理由：
80 因为他是这个世界上，独一无二的。
Francesc Fàbregas。
我们的爱
And the last reason we like him, the most important one is:。
because he is the unique Francesc Fàbregas in the world.。
Our love.
大圣杰锅是
生而为赢 30篇美文
AIDS is a health issue, but also a social problem, AIDS on individuals, families and society have caused the harm can not be ignored. 。
Once infected with HIV developed into AIDS, health conditions will deteriorate rapidly, patients have to bear tremendous physical pain, was finally killed. 。
In addition, HIV-infected person vulnerable to social discrimination, it is difficult to get friends and relatives for care and attention. 。
The community on the AIDS infected people and the various discriminatory attitudes will affect their family, their family members and, like them, we should also bear its heavy psychological burden. This is not easy to have a family and even lead to family breakdown. 。
AIDS mainly in the prime of life against those of adults aged 20-45, and the adult society is the producer, family upbringing, the country's defenders. AIDS weakened the social productive forces 。
Social discrimination and unfair treatment of many AIDS infected persons and to the community, causing social instability, the increased crime rate, social order and damaged social stability. 。
So that millions of innocent children are forced to bear the pain of lost loved ones, but also people often suffer discrimination, deprived of education, malnutrition and too heavy a burden on labor. 。
AIDS is our common enemy of mankind, to the eradication of AIDS requires the joint efforts of the entire society。
小韩在追星
英语作文_the importance of families
•第六篇：What I have Lived for 我为何而生 。
What I Have Lived For。
Three passions, simple but overwhelmingly strong, have governed my life: the longing for love, the search for knowledge, and unbearable pity for the suffering of mankind. These passions, like great winds, have blown me hither and thither, in a wayward course, over a deep ocean of anguish, reaching to the very verge of despair.。
I have sought love, first, because it brings ecstasy---ecstasy so great that I would often have sacrificed all the rest of my life for a few hours for this joy. I have sought it, next, because it relieves loneliness---that terrible loneliness in which one shivering consciousness looks over the rim of the world into the cold unfathomable lifeless abyss. I have sought it, finally, because in the union of love I have seen, in a mystic miniature, the prefiguring vision of the heaven that saints and poets have imagined. This is what I sought, and though it might seem too good for human life, this is what---at last---I have found.。
With equal passion I have sought knowledge. I have wished to understand the hearts of men. I have wished to know why the stars shine. And I have tried to apprehend the Pythagorean power by which number holds sway above the flux. A little of this, but not much, I have achieved.。
Love and knowledge, so far as they were possible, led upward toward the heavens. But always it brought me back to earth. Echoes of cries of pain reverberate in my heart. Children in famine, victims tortured by oppressors, helpless old people a hated burden to their sons, and the whole world of loneliness, poverty, and pain make a mockery of what human life should be. I long to alleviate the evil, but I cannot, and I too suffer.。
This has been my life. I have found it worth living, and would gladly live it again if the chance were offered me.。
•第七篇：When Love Beckons You 爱的召唤 。
When Love Beckons You。
When love beckons to you, follow him, though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you, yield to him, though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you, believe in him, though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.。
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, so shall he descend to our roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.。
But if, in your fear, you would seek only love’s peace and love’s pleasure, then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love’s threshing-floor, into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears. Love gives naught but it self and takes naught but from itself. Love possesses not, nor would it be possessed, for love is sufficient unto love.。
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself. But if you love and must have desires, let these be your desires:。
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.。
To know the pain of too much tenderness.。
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;。
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.。
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;。
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love’s ecstasy;。
To return home at eventide with gratitude;。
And then to sleep with a payer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.。
•第八篇：The Road to Success 成功之道 。
The Road to Success。
It is well that young men should begin at the beginning and occupy the most subordinate positions. Many of the leading businessmen of Pittsburgh had a serious responsibility thrust upon them at the very threshold of their career. They were introduced to the broom, and spent the first hours of their business lives sweeping out the office. I notice we have janitors and janitresses now in offices, and our young men unfortunately miss that salutary branch of business education. But if by chance the professional sweeper is absent any morning, the boy who has the genius of the future partner in him will not hesitate to try his hand at the broom. It does not hurt the newest comer to sweep out the office if necessary. I was one of those sweepers myself.。
Assuming that you have all obtained employment and are fairly started, my advice to you is “aim high”. I would not give a fig for the young man who does not already see himself the partner or the head of an important firm. Do not rest content for a moment in your thoughts as head clerk, or foreman, or general manager in any concern, no matter how extensive. Say to yourself, “My place is at the top.” Be king in your dreams.。
And here is the prime condition of success, the great secret: concentrate your energy, thought, and capital exclusively upon the business in which you are engaged. Having begun in one line, resolve to fight it out on that line, to lead in it, adopt every improvement, have the best machinery, and know the most about it.。
The concerns which fail are those which have scattered their capital, which means that they have scattered their brains also. They have investments in this, or that, or the other, here there, and everywhere. “Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.” is all wrong. I tell you to “put all your eggs in one basket, and then watch that basket.” Look round you and take notice, men who do that not often fail. It is easy to watch and carry the one basket. It is trying to carry too many baskets that breaks most eggs in this country. He who carries three baskets must put one on his head, which is apt to tumble and trip him up. One fault of the American businessman is lack of concentration.。
To summarize what I have said: aim for the highest; never enter a bar room; do not touch liquor, or if at all only at meals; never speculate; never indorse beyond your surplus cash fund; make the firm’s interest yours; break orders always to save owners; concentrate; put all your eggs in one basket, and watch that basket; expenditure always within revenue; lastly, be not impatient, for as Emerson says, “no one can cheat you out of ultimate success but yourselves.”
•第九篇：On Meeting the Celebrated 论见名人 。
On Meeting the Celebrated。
I have always wondered at the passion many people have to meet the celebrated. The prestige you acquire by being able to tell your friends that you know famous men proves only that you are yourself of small account. The celebrated develop a technique to deal with the persons they come across. They show the world a mask, often an impressive on, but take care to conceal their real selves. They play the part that is expected from them, and with practice learn to play it very well, but you are stupid if you think that this public performance of theirs corresponds with the man within.。
I have been attached, deeply attached, to a few people; but I have been interested in men in general not for their own sakes, but for the sake of my work. I have not, as Kant enjoined, regarded each man as an end in himself, but as material that might be useful to me as a writer. I have been more concerned with the obscure than with the famous. They are more often themselves. They have had no need to create a figure to protect themselves from the world or to impress it. Their idiosyncrasies have had more chance to develop in the limited circle of their activity, and since they have never been in the public eye it has never occurred to them that they have anything to conceal. They display their oddities because it has never struck them that they are odd. And after all it is with the common run of men that we writers have to deal; kings, dictators, commercial magnates are from our point of view very unsatisfactory. To write about them is a venture that has often tempted writers, but the failure that has attended their efforts shows that such beings are too exceptional to form a proper ground for a work of art. They cannot be made real. The ordinary is the writer’s richer field. Its unexpectedness, its singularity, its infinite variety afford unending material. The great man is too often all of a piece; it is the little man that is a bundle of contradictory elements. He is inexhaustible. You never come to the end of the surprises he has in store for you. For my part I would much sooner spend a month on a desert island with a veterinary surgeon than with a prime minister.。
•第十篇：The 50-Percent Theory of Life 生活理论半对半 。
The 50-Percent Theory of Life。
I believe in the 50-percent theory. Half the time things are better than normal; the other half, they re worse. I believe life is a pendulum swing. It takes time and experience to understand what normal is, and that gives me the perspective to deal with the surprises of the future.。
Let’s benchmark the parameters: yes, I will die. I’ve dealt with the deaths of both parents, a best friend, a beloved boss and cherished pets. Some of these deaths have been violent, before my eyes, or slow and agonizing. Bad stuff, and it belongs at the bottom of the scale.。
Then there are those high points: romance and marriage to the right person; having a child and doing those Dad things like coaching my son’s baseball team, paddling around the creek in the boat while he’s swimming with the dogs, discovering his compassion so deep it manifests even in his kindness to snails, his imagination so vivid he builds a spaceship from a scattered pile of Legos.。
But there is a vast meadow of life in the middle, where the bad and the good flip-flop acrobatically. This is what convinces me to believe in the 50-percent theory.。
One spring I planted corn too early in a bottomland so flood-prone that neighbors laughed. I felt chagrined at the wasted effort. Summer turned brutal---the worst heat wave and drought in my lifetime. The air-conditioned died; the well went dry; the marriage ended; the job lost; the money gone. I was living lyrics from a country tune---music I loathed. Only a surging Kansas City Royals team buoyed my spirits.。
Looking back on that horrible summer, I soon understood that all succeeding good things merely offset the bad. Worse than normal wouldn’t last long. I am owed and savor the halcyon times. The reinvigorate me for the next nasty surprise and offer assurance that can thrive. The 50-percent theory even helps me see hope beyond my Royals’ recent slump, a field of struggling rookies sown so that some year soon we can reap an October harvest.。
For that on blistering summer, the ground moisture was just right, planting early allowed pollination before heat withered the tops, and the lack of rain spared the standing corn from floods. That winter my crib overflowed with corn---fat, healthy three-to-a-stalk ears filled with kernels from heel to tip---while my neighbors’ fields yielded only brown, empty husks.。
Although plantings past may have fallen below the 50-percent expectation, and they probably will again in the future, I am still sustained by the crop that flourishes during the drought. 。
•第十一篇：What is Your Recovery Rate? 你的恢复速率是多少？
What is Your Recovery Rate?。
What is your recovery rate? How long does it take you to recover from actions and behaviors that upset you? Minutes? Hours? Days? Weeks? The longer it takes you to recover, the more influence that incident has on your actions, and the less able you are to perform to your personal best. In a nutshell, the longer it takes you to recover, the weaker you are and the poorer your performance.。
You are well aware that you need to exercise to keep the body fit and, no doubt, accept that a reasonable measure of health is the speed in which your heart and respiratory system recovers after exercise. Likewise the faster you let go of an issue that upsets you, the faster you return to an equilibrium, the healthier you will be. The best example of this behavior is found with professional sportspeople. They know that the faster they can forget an incident or missd opportunity and get on with the game, the better their performance. In fact, most measure the time it takes them to overcome and forget an incident in a game and most reckon a recovery rate of 30 seconds is too long!。
Imagine yourself to be an actor in a play on the stage. Your aim is to play your part to the best of your ability. You have been given a script and at the end of each sentence is a ful stop. Each time you get to the end of the sentence you start a new one and although the next sentence is related to the last it is not affected by it. Your job is to deliver each sentence to the best of your ability.。
Don’t live your life in the past! Learn to live in the present, to overcome the past. Stop the past from influencing your daily life. Don’t allow thoughts of the past to reduce your personal best. Stop the past from interfering with your life. Learn to recover quickly.。
Remember: Rome wasn’t built in a day. Reflect on your recovery rate each day. Every day before you go to bed, look at your progress. Don’t lie in bed saying to you, “I did that wrong.” “I should have done better there.” No. look at your day and note when you made an effort to place a full stop after an incident. This is a success. You are taking control of your life. Remember this is a step by step process. This is not a make-over. You are undertaking real change here. Your aim: reduce the time spent in recovery.。
The way forward?。
Live in the present. Not in the precedent.。
•第十二篇：Clear Your Mental Space 清理心灵的空间 。
Clear Your Mental Space。
Think about the last time you felt a negative emotion---like stress, anger, or frustration. What was going through your mind as you were going through that negativity? Was your mind cluttered with thoughts? Or was it paralyzed, unable to think?。
The next time you find yourself in the middle of a very stressful time, or you feel angry or frustrated, stop. Yes, that’s right, stop. Whatever you’re doing, stop and sit for one minute. While you’re sitting there, completely immerse yourself in the negative emotion.。
Allow that emotion to consume you. Allow yourself one minute to truly feel that emotion. Don’t cheat yourself here. Take the entire minute---but only one minute---to do nothing else but feel that emotion.。
When the minute is over, ask yourself, “Am I wiling to keep holding on to this negative emotion as I go through the rest of the day?”
Once you’ve allowed yourself to be totally immersed in the emotion and really fell it, you will be surprised to find that the emotion clears rather quickly.。
If you feel you need to hold on to the emotion for a little longer, that is OK. Allow yourself another minute to feel the emotion.。
When you feel you’ve had enough of the emotion, ask yourself if you’re willing to carry that negativity with you for the rest of the day. If not, take a deep breath. As you exhale, release all that negativity with your breath.。
This exercise seems simple---almost too simple. But, it is very effective. By allowing that negative emotion the space to be truly felt, you are dealing with the emotion rather than stuffing it down and trying not to feel it. You are actually taking away the power of the emotion by giving it the space and attention it needs. When you immerse yourself in the emotion, and realize that it is only emotion, it loses its control. You can clear your head and proceed with your task.。
Try it. Next time you’re in the middle of a negative emotion, give yourself the space to feel the emotion and see what happens. Keep a piece of paper with you that says the following:。
Stop. Immerse for one minute. Do I want to keep this negativity? Breath deep, exhale, release. Move on!。
This will remind you of the steps to the process. Remember; take the time you need to really immerse yourself in the emotion. Then, when you feel you’ve felt it enough, release it---really let go of it. You will be surprised at how quickly you can move on from a negative situation and get to what you really want to do!。
小韩在追星
The importance of family education 。
Family education on the issue since ancient times by people's concern, but as a subject to study in China in recent years is also the matter. This is the development of the times, the demand, the National necessary to improve the overall quality of the issues involved. Here with the parents of the importance of family education, the aim is to the family and society, the education sector to shoulder the common task of educating the next generation. The education is a system of education works here include a family education, social education, collective (Tuoyouyuansuo, school) education, the three interrelated and organic combination of mutual influence, interaction and mutual constraints The education project from which one can, but in this project, family education is the foundation of all education. The former Soviet Union educators famous Su Huomu Belinsky transferred to a child than marble, he said, to shape this into a marble statue of need six sculptor: 1 family, 2 schools, 3 children of the collective; 4 child; books; 6 occasional factor. From the order, the family was included in the first place, can see the family in shaping children in the course of a very important role in the hearts of the educators occupy a position. For this reason parents understand the importance of family education is very necessary. 。
First, family education is the starting point for education and basic point 。
Family education generally refers to the family of parents and adult children of minors education process. Their educational objectives should be: the child into the community to accept collective education (kindergarten, school education) prior to guarantee the physical and mental health development of children, to accept the kindergartens, schools of education to lay a solid foundation. The child for admission into the school, with kindergartens, schools to moral, intellectual, physical, the United States, the various aspects of comprehensive development. Education is the focus of moral education mainly among children good moral quality and develop good habits mainly habits include: living habits, labor practices, learning habits, the church children how to learn "life." As a result of family education in the family, and kindergartens, schools of education, social education, compared with the following characteristics of these features so that family education to become the starting point for education and basic point is by no other educational advantages. 。
(A) family of early education 。
The family is the cradle of life of children, who are receiving education after the birth of a venue that is the first class life; parents are children's first teachers, that is, the Enlightenment division. Therefore, parents of children by the application of early education the most. Generally speaking, after the birth of a child after three years of development, access to early childhood, from the 3-year-old…… 6-year-old is preschool, which is said in the early stages of education, this is the physical and mental development of an important period. China's Gu Yan: "Cang, with the Cang, with the yellow, yellow." Childhood is gradually nurture life with the beginning of many basic human capacity is a stage of this age, such as language, and some basic moves Living habits, and so on, the character is gradually taking shape. U.S. psychologists Bloom, a person's intellectual development if his 17-year-old regarded as the level reached 100 percent, then 4 years old when it reached 50 percent. 4-8 years old and a 30% increase ,8-17-year-old also won 20 percent. This shows that children in the 5-year-old former intelligence is the fastest growing period, the early intellectual development is the best, if parents in this period by the implementation of good family education, early child will be the key to intellectual development. Since ancient times, many people with lofty ideals, celebrities in the early years of fruitful period by a good family education is their future become an important cause. For example, the German poet, playwright Goethe's become, effective early education in the family. Goethe 2-3 years old, his father hold on to the outskirts of the field visit to observe nature, culture Goethe's observation capability. 3-4 years old, his father taught him to sing, the songs back, said a fairy tale, and we intend to let him in the face of public lectures, training his speaking ability. These are awareness education so that young Goethe optimistic, progressive, happy to think, be good at learning. Goethe-8-year-old can use, Germany, Britain, Italy, Latin, Greek reading books, 14-year-old wrote the script, the 25-year-old with a month's time wrote a famous poem in Europe, "The Sorrows of Young Werther . " Another example of ancient "and his son calligrapher," Wang Xizhi's known for, Wang Xianzhi, there have been a number of 1350 Edison invented the great inventors, the generation of literary star Guo Moruo, Mao Dun and other celebrities of the growth process that the family education in the early intellectual development is very important . Instead, the period of childhood are not good family education and intellectual impact on the normal development of many of the examples is. Such as India, "Langhai" Ka Mala, who was Diao to the wolf, when 8-year-old was found, but their living habits with the same people, their living habits and almost like a wolf, limbs, crawling, eating raw meat, day V Night, Later, a man-made training, two years before standing, after six years can be like walking Xiangren, four years learned to six words, in his 17-year-old, the intellectual level reached only 3-year-old child's level. According to "China Women" revealed that China's Nanjing City Xingma one of the workers suffering from mental and psychological diseases, Shenpa children persecuted by the people, will own three children from small lock at home, people so that they contacts with the outside world, has a long Up to 10 years, resulting in the children mental retardation, speech delay, compared with their peers, intellectual capacity and very different life, near idiots, so the family can not be neglected the role of early education, 。
(B) family education continuity of family education second characteristic is the continuity. After the birth of a child, from small to large, almost 2 / 3 of time living in the family, Zhaochaomumu, all the parents in the education. Such education is the intentional and unintentional, planned and unplanned, consciously and unconsciously, are carried out, no matter what, in what time education, parents are in their own words and deeds at any time affect their children's education . Such education of children living habits, moral conduct and behaviour and so on in the style of conversation kept to influence and demonstrations, the subtle influence of the considerable role, accompanied by a person's life can be said to live to old to learn the old, some Parent educator again called for life teachers. This life of the education often reflects a family's Family Style, Family Style is good or bad often have to continue for several generations, or even a dozen, dozens generation, and this Family Style often with family members engaged in the employment-related . Such as: Xinglin family "," Pear Orchard House, "" family education ", etc. At the same time Family Style also reflects a family's style of study, study, good or bad is often the continuation of many generations, a dozen people, several dozens of generations . As in modern China, Wuxi people Yan Gong added-not "countries selected in the Museum", statistics from 2003-Shunzhi Branch to Guangxu 30 years Bing Xu Jia Chen Branch, the champion of 114 people, including his son by the first brothers Shuzhileishi Absolutely not, such as Suzhou Miao, Wu and Pan Sanxing, Changshu Weng, both surnamed Jiang, Chen Haining, Zhejiang, check the two surnames. See, family education is often the continuity of personnel groups have an important impact on the rise. This Situation. Ancient and modern times quite prominent in the contemporary with the development of science, and social needs of the unemployed increased, the broad people's careers, a family member can not have all engaged in the same work, but many see this situation That some family members work frequently appears in the results, be commended, but some family members one after another crime. This is a continuous education and family have great relations. 。
(C) family education authority 。
Family Education is the authority of parents in their children on their elders reflected by the power and power. The existence of the family, parents and children identified the blood relationship, upbringing, emotional, moral and ethical children in the living needs of the elderly parents have great dependence, family members and the fundamental interests of consistency, have decided The father of each of their children a greater role in the constraints. Parent education was easier to accept and submit to the children, parents and reasonable use of this feature, the children good moral character and habits formed the usefulness, for child care, in particular, is the case. Child care and other children in playing the game, when disputes arise when parents are often invoked to confirm their own speech act is right, if they like to say: "My father is saying this." Or "My mother is So do. "And so on. Children of parents in the eyes of the authority decided to accept the child how to treat the nursery schools and community education. The relationship between children and parents, the child is the first to face an important social relations. In this relationship, almost embodies the moral social ethics in all aspects, if such a relationship in the formation of cracks and defects, the children then to the community, in a variety of relationships will be reflected. Therefore stressed the importance of parental authority, but also because the children of parents in childhood has always played a dual role: the safety of children is not only the survival of protected persons, but also a life of the Wizard of Enlightenment. The effects of parental education, depends on the extent to establish the authority of parents, foster parents must be authoritative 。
Built on respect for children on the basis of personality, rather than the feudal patriarchal system, parents are wise to understand the importance of establishing authority, but also know how to establish the authority does not rely on repression and force, subjective assumptions, but the method used Gangrouxiangji. Both parents in the education of their children's attitude on the first concerted and coordinate with each other, should be wide, wide, it should be strict martial law, in front of their children establish a kind of dignity and image, so that parents accept their children's education. 。
(D) of the infected family education 。
Parents with children between the blood relationship and kinship between the natural and close, making the parents of the children have strong feelings on the role of infection. Children on the demeanour of the parents can often Xinlingshenkuai to intelligence-intelligence. In dealing with in and around the side of the relationship between matter and the issue of children on the attitude of parents is very easy to resonate. In the happy parents, the children will take part in joy, the parents showed irritability and Menmenbuyue, the child's emotions can easily be affected, even young children as well. If the parents lack of rational and emotional, hot temper, will enable blind children to absorb its weaknesses. Some parents in dealing with unexpected incidents, show panic anxiety, surprise, the impact on children is not good if the frightened parents the same, steady firm and children in distress will also calm the situation calmly, so the quality of child psychology training Play a positive role. 。
(5) timeliness of family education 。
Family education process, parents are parents of children in the family of the individual acts of education than kindergarten, school education should promptly. As the saying goes:知子莫若父, that women Morrow home. Overnight between parents and children, their situation can be said to be well known to the children was slightly changed, even a look, a smile can make parents Xinlingshenhui, so as parents through their children's every move, his every word and deed can make the best of At this very moment of their psychological state, found the child on the existing problems, timely education, timely corrective, not the problem overnight, so that bad habits in the embryonic stage of the eradication. And kindergartens, schools, teachers faced with dozens of children, only for the children of this age stage for general education, that is, education groups, because of time and energy constraints, it is impossible to take care of each child's characteristics, Prone to the phenomenon of loss, or even to take care of the children of teachers and the poor do not have a sense of trust, and parents could guide their children promptly correct understanding. So parents of children to the correct family education so that children can enter kindergarten before forming a good habit, to accept collective education has laid a good foundation, can make up for the lack of mass education. 。
Second, a good family education is the 21st century created the necessary conditions for personnel 。
"China's 1990s development program for children" in the specified: "Today's children are the masters of the 21st century, child protection and the bottom-up development is to improve the quality of the population base, which is a prerequisite for development. The healthy growth of children Related to the future and destiny of the motherland. Improve the quality of the entire nation, from the start with children. "And:" In 2000 to make 90 percent of children (under the age of 14) of the parents to varying degrees, master conservation, education of children of knowledge. "This Top targeted the parents shoulders for the state created the heavy responsibility of the 21st century talents. Can this generation of children training to become Dezhitimei the all-round development of people, this country is Houjiyouren relationship to the Bainiantaiji. Fu-Lu Bell also said: "The country's fate is not so much lies in the hands of those in power, we might as well have said to be in the hands of his mother." This sentence is very philosophical, it profoundly understand the parents pick in the education of their children in The role played by. Parents should first clear direction of education and national interests, the people's request in line with the principle, the child can not be regarded as private property, it is necessary to establish the idea of the country, correct educational purposes. China's 21st century is what the situation, with the words of Comrade Deng Xiaoping, to make our country in the middle of the 21st century to achieve the level of moderately developed countries, per capita income reached 4,000 U.S. dollars, in gross national product amounted to 6 trillion U.S. dollars. The 21st century should be a good ideologies and noble moral character, and improve the psychological quality, positive spirit of cooperation with others, strong adaptability, Chikunailao the comprehensive development of the new generation. If the 21st century do not have such a group of high-quality builders is very difficult to complete this great, with such a quality is not overnight can do, and a good family education training is a prerequisite for high-quality people. 。
Third, a good family education is a catalyst to optimize the children hearts 。
Children from infancy into childhood, with age, from the family environment will eventually enter the small community, contact with the crowd outside the home, things. Lee Jia Choue those in society from time to time to enter the child's perspective, adults take isolation tactics will not work, because in the family video from different angles will continue to reflect the reality in today's society, issues both positive and negative have The. Children, especially young children lack a rational ability to distinguish right from wrong, but sensitive than adults have the feeling of capacity. They occurred around the kind of terrible things, sensitive, and this sensitivity training is the ability to rationally distinguish between a good basis, as parents should take advantage of this extension, help the children feel in this capacity on the basis of , The development of the social life of the ability to identify and psychological capacity, social filter information, optimize the hearts of young children. If parents in their daily life can be for young children is not strong capacity to accept the characteristics specific to seize the day-to-day chores, help children understand the community in identifying the Shishifeifei, specifically so that they feel Lee's bright side, Experience to the ugly despicable, can help children enhance the Yangshan Chuxie sense of justice, thus resist the dark side of the ugly soul of the child erosion. For example, today's video into the urban residents in almost every family, the children almost every day to deal with them, it can be said is not out of their homes, Bianzhi the world. Which can be received from all over the world all kinds of information. There are political situation, scientific and technological progress, ordinary people of Sushi, from which you can learn a lot of knowledge and understanding of major domestic and international events, both within and outside small home. It is inevitable that some homicide violence, obscene absurdity of the lens Yingru child's eyelid. Parents should address these issues timely guidance, to improve their children's ability to identify, we need to keep their own perceptions of behaviour, for their children establish a positive image, optimizing the hearts of children, the prevention of child make mistakes, and even violations of law and discipline. Family to work in this area, help small and stability of the environment. The family is society's cells, with healthy cells, can we have a sound body, the sick cells, the body will cause disease. As an ancient saying goes: "body repair and then home-and-then-State governance, rule of the then-world", "Qijia, the country, the world-the" point of view is that this truth. For this reason parents do a good job in optimizing the work of children's mental stability and social, stability and national power in ages. 。
In short, as parents to the importance of family education fully and conscientiously do a good job in their children's education, make good parents responsibilities and obligations for the country to train qualified personnel in the building.。